How to talk dirty :Dirty talk is the easiest way to have her ready to rip her kickers off.


Do your research

Everybody has some sexual words that make them 'squick' (cringe) as we say in Kinkland. Ideally you need to find out hers before you open your filthy mouth. Do a little investigation. What words does she use herself to refer to her own body, yours or other people’s? If in doubt about her lubricious language preferences, next time you’re getting it on play the plausible deniability card: “If I said you had a [insert explicit complement] would you still fuck me?” is a good one. If she blushes it doesn’t necessarily mean she’s not aroused, but her body will tell the truth. Does she grind in to you? Kiss you harder? Feel wetter? If not, leave it, and try another phrase another time.

Master your register

Stay away from anything too porno – it’s not so much too offensive as too clichéd – and go for words without obviously negative connotations. This is hard when referring to the female body because women have been slut-shamed for so many years. Choose pussy over twat; minx over slut. Talk about ravishing her not pumping her. And stay away from medical words unless you’re playing doctors and nurses. Once she’s initiated into the verbal play, concede to her lead. Chances are she might be more into taboo-talk then you were expecting. If she calls herself a whore, that’s your cue to use it too. If she doesn't, don't be surprised if you're jettisoned from the bed forthwith should it spill from your lips.

Be direct; be ready to laugh

Once you’ve settled on your register, stick to it. Do not, whatever you do, exchange the word 'cock' for a flowery euphemism like ‘scabbard’, and avoid all penis pet names. Talk about fucking like you’d give directions to a stranger on the street. Be specific, be direct, be concise. Most importantly, be confident. Tell her x is going to happen to y and be clear that she’s the inspiration for your gutter-mouth. And keep a half-smile on your face. It’ll make it easier to regroup if she’s too busy laughing to succumb.

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